Hi Sundial!
I am so very glad to hear from you so quickly. I truly appreciate the reading.
"This card is about looking at things differently, which symbolizes not only your changed idea of your coworker (someone to date), but also that a relationship with this person can change some of the ideas you have about Life. You'll be looking at things differently."
I will be looking at things and life differently with this new man in my life. I couldn't see my world any other way but with Tom, my ex-fiance. But this new man, Dave, is very different from Tom and the change is one I do really need. I was afraid of falling back in to the same old rut with Tom if his emailing me turned into us getting back together. Dave has taken my eyes away from Tom and I need that.
"This card is about a victory. Perhaps a victory that you can move on into a new relationship, but perhaps also a victory for the other person; maybe he's had his eye on you for sometime."
I think you hit this one right on the nose! It is going to be a victory for me to actually let go of Tom and move on into another relationship. It has been very difficult for me to let go for some odd reason. I have been clutching onto air.....per se. As for having an eye on each other.......Dave and I worked together a year ago, but we were both in relationships at that time. I had my eye on him though and maybe he had his eye on me also. I guess I will soon find out.
"Aces are about beginnings, and with the Sword we're back to attitudes. I think you can certainly see if this is a relationship you want to pursue, with the understanding that some of your beliefs will be challenged and perhaps evolved. That, of course can be uncomfortable while it's happening. Get a few character references on him from your friends or coworkers, and if everything seems good, give it a go! It should be at least worth finding out if he's interesting!"
I need a new beginning and I am up for some challenges. For reasons I don't want to go into, I have been just sitting back and re-evaluating my life for the last six months. I haven't been able to do anything of my own volition to enact the changes I feel need to be made, but in the next 3 weeks I will have the opportunity to show how my beliefs have been challenged and have evolved. Dave is a good person for me to begin a new lease on life with, his beliefs are already the same as those I have adopted in the last six months.
I thank you again. And if you have any additional insights, don't hesitate to let me know.
Debbie
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